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You're pushing it, pal

Meaning

A firm instruction to cease a specific behavior before the speaker loses their patience. It serves as the final warning before a conflict escalates.

Firm, threatening

Used in a sentence

  • When the child kept asking for candy I looked him in the eye and said you are pushing it, pal.
  • You are pushing it, pal, if you think I am going to loan you more money today.
  • If you keep playing that loud music you are pushing it, pal.

The backstory

This is a general American idiom that evolved from the physical act of pushing a boundary or a person. It gained popularity through mid century cinema and noir films.

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