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You're not the boss of me
Meaning
- A defiant retort used to reject someone's attempt to exert authority. It is the gold standard for children and immature adults wanting to declare their independence from unwanted supervision.
Petulant, defiant
Used in a sentence
- Mom told me to clean my room and I shouted back that she is not the boss of me.
- The manager tried to tell me how to park my car but I told him he is not the boss of me.
- Listen buddy, do not tell me when to leave because you are not the boss of me.
The backstory
The exact origins are murky but it gained peak cultural status in the early 2000s as the theme song for the show Malcolm in the Middle. It has existed as a playground mantra since at least the mid 20th century.
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