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You can't win them all

Meaning

A consolation phrase used to soften the blow of failure or a bad loss. It suggests that while this specific battle was lost, the war is still ongoing.

Comforting, stoic

Used in a sentence

  • I know you didn't get the raise, but you can't win them all.
  • The rain ruined our plans for the beach, but hey, you can't win them all.
  • We lost the account, but we will learn from it, because you can't win them all.

The backstory

This is a common-sense adage that has been used in sports and competition for generations to maintain morale after a defeat.

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