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Yes, no, maybe so

Meaning

This is a playful way to express indecision or uncertainty about a situation. It is often used when someone is waffling between choices or refusing to give a straight answer.

Playful, noncommittal

Used in a sentence

  • I asked if he wanted to go to the lake, and he just gave me a yes, no, maybe so shrug.
  • Are we going to dinner or not? Stop with the yes, no, maybe so and pick a place.
  • The committee was acting all yes, no, maybe so until the boss walked in the room.

The backstory

This rhythmic phrase likely evolved from children's playground games or skip rope rhymes. Its exact origin is lost to time, but it clearly functions as a chant for indecision.

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