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Who do you think you're talking to?

Meaning

This is a classic line used when someone feels disrespected or ignored by a person of lower status or audacity. It serves as an immediate warning that the speaker demands more deference.

Aggressive, warning

Used in a sentence

  • You better watch your tone with me; who do you think you are talking to?
  • The customer started shouting at the clerk, who replied firmly, who do you think you are talking to?
  • Don't you raise your voice at me, son; who do you think you are talking to?

The backstory

This is a staple of American dramatic flair, often seen in movies and plays. Its specific origin is lost to time, likely evolving from general English expressions of rank.

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