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When I was a kid, we had to...

Meaning

A common precursor to an exaggerated story about how much harder things were in the past. It is almost always used to make current generations feel soft.

Nostalgic, lecturing

Used in a sentence

  • When I was a kid, we had to walk five miles to school in the snow, both ways.
  • My grandfather started, when I was a kid, we had to churn our own butter, so I knew a lecture was coming.
  • When I was a kid, we had to make do with three television channels and we liked it.

The backstory

This is the universal language of parents and grandparents across all cultures. It represents the natural tendency of elders to mythologize their own upbringing to maintain authority.

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