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What part of no don't you understand?

Meaning

A stern, no-nonsense way to let someone know they are being persistent in an annoying or disrespectful way. It is a hard stop to a pushy conversation.

Firm, icy

Used in a sentence

  • I told you I am not going to the store. What part of no don't you understand?
  • He kept asking to borrow money after I already said no. I finally said, what part of no don't you understand?
  • Stop trying to change the menu. What part of no don't you understand?

The backstory

This became a common idiom in the late 20th century, often used by parents and authority figures to emphasize that the word 'no' is not a starting point for negotiation.

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