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My goodness!

Meaning

A polite, mild exclamation of surprise, alarm, or gentle annoyance. It is the classic go-to for people who want to express emotion while remaining perfectly polite.

Polite, gentle

Used in a sentence

  • My goodness, you have grown so tall since I saw you last!
  • My goodness, did you drop the entire tray of dishes?
  • My goodness, the weather has been absolutely wild this week.

The backstory

It is a sanitized version of stronger oaths that invoked the divine. By swapping out the name of the deity for goodness, speakers kept their language clean for polite society.

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