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Look who's finally decided to join us

Meaning

A passive-aggressive way to point out that someone is late to a meeting, a party, or a conversation. It makes the target feel guilty for their tardiness.

Sarcastic, biting

Used in a sentence

  • Look who's finally decided to join us, we started ten minutes ago.
  • Look who's finally decided to join us, pull up a chair.
  • I see you walked in, look who's finally decided to join us.

The backstory

A classic piece of social weaponry. It relies on the faux-polite tone of 'finally decided' to emphasize that the person chose to be late.

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