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Etymology Journal · L

Like a moth to the flame

Meaning

Describes a person being irresistibly drawn to something dangerous, addictive, or obviously bad for them. It suggests a lack of control despite knowing the outcome will be painful.

Dramatic, cautionary

Used in a sentence

  • He went back to his old ways like a moth to the flame.
  • She is drawn to bad news like a moth to the flame every single weekend.
  • Don't go near that sale rack or you will be like a moth to the flame.

The backstory

References the ancient observation that nocturnal insects are confused and attracted by bright artificial lights. It has been used metaphorically in literature for centuries to describe self-destructive attraction.

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