Etymology Journal · I
It is what it is
Meaning
- An expression of acceptance toward a situation that cannot be changed. It is a way to stop fighting reality and just deal with the cards you have been dealt.
Stoic, neutral
Used in a sentence
- We missed our flight, but it is what it is, so let's find a hotel.
- I didn't get the promotion, but it is what it is.
- The weather is terrible for the picnic, but it is what it is.
The backstory
This phrase has been used in various forms for a long time, but it became a very common cultural shorthand in the late 20th century for stoic resignation.
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