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Etymology Journal · I

It is what it is

Meaning

An expression of acceptance toward a situation that cannot be changed. It is a way to stop fighting reality and just deal with the cards you have been dealt.

Stoic, neutral

Used in a sentence

  • We missed our flight, but it is what it is, so let's find a hotel.
  • I didn't get the promotion, but it is what it is.
  • The weather is terrible for the picnic, but it is what it is.

The backstory

This phrase has been used in various forms for a long time, but it became a very common cultural shorthand in the late 20th century for stoic resignation.

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