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If you say so

Meaning

A passive-aggressive way of signaling that you do not believe what the other person just said, but you are choosing not to argue about it.

Skeptical, dismissive

Used in a sentence

  • He told me he finished the report on time, and I just replied if you say so.
  • She insisted the party would be fun despite the lack of music, so I just said if you say so.
  • If you say so, but I have a hard time believing that engine is actually fine.

The backstory

This is a standard English idiom that relies entirely on tone. It has been used to politely dismiss opinions for as long as people have been arguing.

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