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How many times do I have to tell you?

Meaning

A stern warning used by parents or authority figures to signal that their patience is wearing thin. It is rarely an actual request for a numerical count.

Stern, parental

Used in a sentence

  • How many times do I have to tell you to clean your room?
  • He sighed, how many times do I have to tell you not to leave the door open?
  • The teacher looked at the chatty student and asked, how many times do I have to tell you to sit down?

The backstory

This is a timeless expression of domestic frustration. It emerged naturally as a way to emphasize the repetition of a rule that is being ignored.

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