Etymology Journal · D
Don't worry your pretty little head
Meaning
- Often used as a condescending or protective way to tell someone to stop thinking about complex or stressful matters. While sometimes sweet, it can sound patronizing depending on the intent.
Patronizing or sweet
Used in a sentence
- Don't worry your pretty little head about the mortgage, I will take care of the bank.
- She told me not to worry my pretty little head about the office drama.
- Honey, don't worry your pretty little head, we will find a way to get you to school.
The backstory
This phrase has roots in mid-century gendered language. It was once common for men to tell women not to worry their heads about business or politics, which is why it now carries a somewhat dated, patriarchal baggage.
Heard in
The South
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