Etymology Journal · D
Don't take it personally
Meaning
- A buffer used before or after delivering tough feedback to let the listener know the criticism is professional or situational rather than an attack on their character.
Diplomatic, serious
Used in a sentence
- I am going to have to cut your hours this week, but please do not take it personally.
- Don't take it personally, but your cooking is a bit too spicy for the kids.
- She was just tired when she snapped at you, so don't take it personally.
The backstory
Common parlance in human resources and social psychology, emerging in the mid-twentieth century. It became a standard way to mitigate social awkwardness during confrontations.
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