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Don't have a hissy fit

Meaning

Do not throw a temper tantrum. It is a slightly mocking way to tell someone their dramatic outburst is childish.

Sassy, patronizing

Used in a sentence

  • I promise we will stop for ice cream, so do not have a hissy fit.
  • She had a total hissy fit when she didn't get her way at the meeting.
  • If you have a hissy fit every time things change, you are going to be very stressed.

The backstory

The term hissy likely comes from the word hysterical. It implies that someone is losing control of their emotions in a way that is loud, irrational, and embarrassing.

Heard in

The South

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