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Don't burn your bridges

Meaning

Do not ruin a relationship or an opportunity that you might need in the future. It is a piece of practical advice about keeping your options open.

Pragmatic, cautious

Used in a sentence

  • Even if you hate this job, do not burn your bridges when you put in your notice.
  • I know you are angry, but try to stay professional so you do not burn your bridges.
  • It is always a small industry, so never burn your bridges.

The backstory

The idiom refers to the ancient military strategy of destroying a bridge behind you after crossing a river, which prevents retreat. Keeping your bridges intact ensures you have a path to go back if needed.

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