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Etymology Journal · D

Dance with the one that brung ya

Meaning

To remain loyal to the people or the strategy that helped you succeed in the first place. It is a lesson against changing your ways just because you have gained success.

Loyal, sage

Used in a sentence

  • We should stick with our original marketing plan because you should always dance with the one that brung ya.
  • Don't forget your old friends now that you are famous; you have to dance with the one that brung ya.
  • He stayed with the same small team throughout his campaign because he believes in dancing with the one that brung ya.

The backstory

This is a classic piece of country-fair wisdom. If you showed up to the dance with a date, it is considered rude and disloyal to dump them for someone else once you get inside.

Heard in

The South

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