Etymology Journal · C

Cry over spilled milk

Meaning

To get upset about a minor mistake that has already happened and cannot be fixed. It is a reminder to stop dwelling on the past and move forward.

Practical, soothing

We missed the train, but there is no use crying over spilled milk, so let us find another way.
You failed the test, but do not cry over spilled milk; just study harder next time.
It is done, so stop crying over spilled milk and start the repairs.

The proverb dates back to at least the mid-17th century. It highlights the futility of worrying about something that is already gone or wasted.

Nationwide

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