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Etymology Journal · C

Come with?

Meaning

This is shorthand for asking someone to accompany you, specifically used when you want to see if they are interested in coming along. It is a clipped, direct question.

Casual, friendly

Used in a sentence

  • I am heading to the store, do you want to come with?
  • We are going to the lake this weekend, you should come with!
  • I am grabbing some lunch, do you want to come with?

The backstory

This usage is a simplified grammatical construction, likely influenced by German and Scandinavian linguistic patterns common in the Upper Midwest. It treats 'with' as a direction of movement.

Heard in

Upper Midwest / Minnesota

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