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Cold shoulder

Meaning

The act of intentionally ignoring someone or showing them lack of warmth. It is a sign of social exclusion or silent disapproval.

Sharp, biting

Used in a sentence

  • I said hello to her in the hallway but she gave me the cold shoulder.
  • He has been giving me the cold shoulder ever since I missed his party.
  • I don't know why she is giving me the cold shoulder today.

The backstory

This dates back to the early 19th century. Some legends suggest it refers to serving a cold shoulder of mutton to an unwanted guest as a hint to leave.

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