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Better to be seen than viewed

Meaning

A slightly cynical joke usually referring to old age or funeral arrangements. It means you are still alive enough to be seen in public.

Dark, funny

Used in a sentence

  • How are you holding up at this age? Well, it is better to be seen than viewed.
  • He always shows up to the family reunion saying it is better to be seen than viewed.
  • Keep your chin up, it is always better to be seen than viewed.

The backstory

This is a classic bit of gallows humor common among the older generations in the Midwest. It plays on the distinction between being a living person and being a corpse on display.

Heard in

Midwest

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