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Better to be seen than viewed
Meaning
- A slightly cynical joke usually referring to old age or funeral arrangements. It means you are still alive enough to be seen in public.
Dark, funny
Used in a sentence
- How are you holding up at this age? Well, it is better to be seen than viewed.
- He always shows up to the family reunion saying it is better to be seen than viewed.
- Keep your chin up, it is always better to be seen than viewed.
The backstory
This is a classic bit of gallows humor common among the older generations in the Midwest. It plays on the distinction between being a living person and being a corpse on display.
Heard in
Midwest
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