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Etymology Journal · B

Be there or be square

Meaning

A cheeky invitation to an event, implying that if you do not show up, you are boring or out of the loop. It is a lighthearted way to pressure people into attending.

Playful, peer-pressuring

Used in a sentence

  • The party starts at eight, be there or be square!
  • We are all going to the diner after the game, be there or be square.
  • I'm hosting a game night, be there or be square!

The backstory

This originated in the 1940s and 50s jazz culture. A square was someone who was not cool or did not understand the music; to be there was to be in the know.

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