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An elephant in the room

Meaning

A major problem or uncomfortable truth that is obvious to everyone present but which nobody wants to discuss. It makes the room feel heavy and awkward.

Tense, observant

Used in a sentence

  • The fact that we have no budget is the elephant in the room.
  • We need to address the elephant in the room before we move on with this project.
  • Her resignation was the elephant in the room during the entire family brunch.

The backstory

The metaphor of an elephant is used because it is a huge creature that is physically impossible to ignore yet everyone acts as if it is not there.

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