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Can't win 'em all

Meaning

This is a consoling thought used when someone experiences a failure or a loss. It reminds them that it is impossible to be successful every single time.

Philosophical, accepting

Used in a sentence

  • I am bummed that I lost that bet. Well, can't win 'em all.
  • The team had a bad season, but they will bounce back. Can't win 'em all.
  • I didn't get the promotion this time, but that is okay. Can't win 'em all.

The backstory

The phrase acknowledges the reality of luck and statistics in human endeavor. It is a very stoic, American way of moving on from a setback.

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